Self-Esteem and Spirituality

THE ROLE OF LOVE

Love is as seen above a basic need, it's like oxygen. If my normal self I feel worthy of love and be loved, I am valuable because I know I have my being to offer to others.

For an atmosphere of love are integral elements:

True encounters between two people (focus on the other hand, intensity, commitment). Psychological security (trust and acceptance.) Appreciation (respect for each other's feelings).

RELATED CONCEPTS WITH LOVE

Each social group has defined the love according to their own discretion. There are thousands of definitions related to love

In SPANISH, the word love (love LATIN -? Ris) covers a lot of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the asexual emotional closeness of familial love and platonic love and to the deep unit or devotion of religious love. In the latter field, transcends feeling and becomes seen as the manifestation of a state of mind or soul, in some religions identified with God himself and the force that holds the universe together.

As we see the central theme of these Definicon is: "To love is to have an active and concerned about those whom one loves."

St. Paul in 1st Corinthians says:

"Love is patient and kind, love is not jealous or boastful, not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful ...".

The decision to love is a decision cortex. Humans use our talent to express our interest in the people we love. When we choose to love the desire passes, goes beyond a physical and chemical processes, if important to the motivation of love within the context of a partner but as we develop the power of love are going to be involved in the deeper areas personality.

Love will be an action, the practice of human power that is made in full freedom or presion.No colvulsion not a passion or a sudden burst, crush, crush, click).

LOVE IS DAR productive sense as giving force experience, wealth, power and know that a man receives, if you want more love, give more love.

Is to give, not material things, who loves DA if, in his own life. It is sacrifice, is often denied, deprived, empty.

Love is a universal theme and we know it is medicine that is prescribed for everything.

Therefore love is not something you can live without it. It is something we have or not have, as you can not have intelligence will ... WE LOVE WE ARE MADE OF LOVE that capacidadafectiva and CAN NOT NO LOVE.

If we can be afraid to love oquizas an excessive need for love we'll see later.

Posted by Psc. Andrea Sutton-Garcia



What self-esteem



It's positive assessment of ourselves.

Loving yourself, knowing valuable, satisfied with himself, is to manifest their potential, recognize their own importance, have a good purpose, deepen their inner life.

It is the consciousness of self-worth that can take life, attitudes towards oneself and relationships with others responsibly.

It also allows to accept, recognize and manage their own limitations and transform them.

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?

Self-esteem is the foundation of a healthy personality. People who have good self-esteem are able to communicate with others.

His absence is the source of the inequalities that are accepted, abuse and mistreatment of violent confrontation. When self-esteem, we seek peaceful, fair and satisfactory to all conflicts.

SELF-ESTEEM AS FORM

Is formed from small, since we are in our mother's womb and is well known that at birth we long for love, because of that we made, we consebidos by the total physical expression of love from our parents, so when for some reason can not receive or not receive enough love creates the wound that marks us forever, is an indelible mark.

Around 1945 there was a lot of information on normal child behavior, is but a Viennese psychologist based in Colorado USA Renee Spitz name and a group of researchers began their studies on the behavior of a particular group of infants in a foundling home for a long period of time, it was 120 infants in their first three months of age had been raised with their mothers but they were separated from them and they were abandoned in the orphanage. They care for their basic needs but the problem was that a nanny cared for 12 children so as not received all the attention, affection and time they needed.

The researchers began to observe certain symptoms in the small during the first month: a lot of crying, clinging to the babysitter, or any adult to hold. After the second month in the Home began having symptoms more alarming, the weeping became wailing, lost weight and low development index markedly.

By the second month had insomnia, continuous infections, psychomotor retardation and look back to the wall without wanting to make contact, indifferent to everything that happened to his environs with no response to stimuli, still lying in their cribs.

By the third month, babies had stiffness in the expression. Prostrate in their cribs. By the fifth month if the mother did not return with them the Psychomotor Development Index and thus diminished and declined last six months to two years the baby that did not return to the mother, presented the picture of stagnation ended in developmental psychology to indicate irreversible damage on the motor development index that is zero.

The third year the children could not speak, standing, walking and fourth year due to recurrent infections and progressive deterioration 40% of children in this study had died.

Today we know that if a child returns to his mother at 5 months and this takes care of him, love him love and attention given the extremely small improvement however always observed subsequent sequelae due to deprivation affects.

Dr. Renee Spitz showed us how the lack of love makes us sick and can lead to death, is he who coined the term anaclitic depression, bringing the set of signs and symptoms presented by these babies and we now know as childhood depression.

The most current study and others show us the importance of love, affection, caring attention of our parents or a substitute that every human being needs and often paradoxically private or injured are right there in the most fundamental, as air and food to live and grow. All is not lost if we have a replacement or our parents give us affection, security, warmth, stability provides the basis for personality development and security in it ourselves.

From the conception can be injured when one of our parents did not want, we are in love, do not give us a warm, stable, sure and steadfast attention, we abuse or neglect. These situations create uncertainty and disturb our emotional life which is then reflected over the years in aggressive behavior, shyness as a mechanism to deal with the pain of emotional deprivation.

All is not lost as adults can modify some of our time constraints THROUGH acquired, such as lack of faith in ourselves, lack of motivation to learn, the inability to accept our mistakes, and so on.

How can we improve our self-esteem or self-concept

Learn to deep self-examination AMARNOS.Hacer PERDONARNOS.Saber of everything that overwhelms us and we molesta.Cuidarnos physically in our diet and exercise, mentally with thoughts deportes.Cuidarnos positivos.Alimentar our spiritual development is not expected to be very old to begin believe in God.

A GOOD SELF-ESTEEM IS LIKE A VACCINE IMPACT adversity.