Affection In Personality

Carlos Mora Vanegas

The spirit of man is the breadwinner of his soul: How can I get help from outside?

Self commits evil and is one who suffers the same consequences or even is one who fails to carry out, and so is self which is purified. The pure and the impure come from oneself, no one can purify another.

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He has written extensively about the affection in the development of personality, especially when we have reached adulthood, when they began the relationship with the partner selected, home building, our relationships and behavior home and that is why, it examines the psychological literature especially our food, learning the emotional burdens that we experienced members of our family home, in our childhood and in that environment where we live.

Of course, we should not be surprising that if you gave, gave little affection when most needed, if not knew how to manage the consequences are negative in adulthood, giving way to sequelae that impair the personality and emotional stability towards to achieve the longed-for happiness and not taking corrective action can be projected negative patterns while maintaining the same string to our heirs. On the contrary, if given properly, without creating dependency, ie, not so excessively, the results are less harmful.

We invite the reader to pause for a moment and assess, in the here and now, for example, what is its behavior with respect to love? How fondly fed their children, couples, without creating dependency? Do you need affection? Do you feel alone? Your partner is more important? Do you think that has fallen into existential void? Was surprised at the way how to provide his affection for the people who choose and are part of your life?

How have you reacted to the loss of a great love? How would a possible emotional loss?. Among other ...

Subtle Lucia (1993), does not comment on the importance of this topic, what is relevant, important that was for us our childhood, depending on care because of this we behave, tells us that hunger brings that feeling of attachment to leads us to think in that relationship, for example, is a matter of life or death. A thought is not too surprising, since in his first moment of our childhood we needed someone else to take care of us, because if it was not so, we would die. This is written in the depths of our brains.

We are now equipped at all levels to be self-sufficient.

We autosastifacer our basic needs: food, drink, sex, shelter, etc.., But the loss-or simply the belief that we will lose, someone who we were emotionally attached, you can get in touch with the heart of our fears of old, which tell us that our very life is being threatened Has this happened? Are you ready to face?

Sutil added that there is experimental evidence in the so-called love of hospitality that occurs in children who have been separated from their parents, very common in our environment, and staying in impersonal institutions where there is no touching, loving and physical contact . After initially mourn and cry, children fall into a state of despair and abandonment, after a while, it becomes a progressive loss of bodily sensations, to an endpoint that can be death.

Thus, subtle signals we have learned that there is a need so basic to the survival of a child care can be physical: the need for emotional closeness, of being in contact with skin. Depending on how they cover this basic need for the child, we experience a different degree of confidence in our ability if we lose the close connection with that person so important. Of course, we need not suffer from a lack of touches as traumatic and as severe as that experienced by children in hospitals to experience the feeling that our life depends on a relationship. However, one must be aware of how these events have affected us in our personality, emotions empty

It señalatambién, watch how these events have affected our personality. To do this, we must be vigilant with regard to the present reality of our feelings, emotions and more if they are weakened by our need, lack of affection from childhood.

Do not get depressed or get caught up in the loneliness, feeling unloved, affected his personality, keep in mind that 'circumstances can not be very specific so that we feel the need to adhere to universal human fact everything you need personality and not deteriorate sample allows us to be happy.

Leo Buscaglia says: Do not feel that you are required to pass each and every one of your waking hours with your loved ones. Stand back from time to time and let them a separate space. Do not be afraid to, you could never give too much, if you do it willingly: not suffocate each other. No one can grow in the shadows ...

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